Hi! I’m Jen. I’m so glad you’re here.
I’m a licensed clinical psychotherapist, couple counsellor and energetic healer who uses an integrated, and personalised process for helping individuals and couples heal from attachment adaptations and childhood trauma to foster more secure attachment internally and with those you love. I’m the author of Heal Your Anxious Attachment and the host of the Psychotherapy Central Podcast, where we explore love, attachment and healing trauma.
Therapy can be expensive. But I have always seen it as a vital part of self-care. At different times in my life, I have gone without other things in order to prioritise my mental health, and it has always been …
Spiritual awakening can feel…surprisingly lonely. You start to see things differently. Feel more. Notice more. And suddenly…the conversations around you don’t quite land the same. You try to explain what you’re experiencing… but it feels like people don’t really get …
We’re often trained to scan for what isn’t working. To spot the mistake. The flaw. The thing that needs improving. It’s how many of us were raised. It’s how schools assess. It’s how workplaces review. It’s even how our nervous …
Small acts of goodness regulate more than you realise. They remind your body and others that safety still exists in human connection. It might be helping someone with their shopping, pausing to hold a door open for someone, picking up …
Preparing for India is not like preparing for general travel because it is a spiritual retreat. There are a few things I start to do a few months before: Although it’s spiritual — there is always lots of fun and …
I’m just wondering if anyone else is noticing a shift in the energy already this morning? I have written down five project ideas I would like to do in the next 12 months. And they arrived spontaneously. I wasn’t sitting …
Travel changes your brain. Not just your mood. Not just your Instagram feed. Your brain. Novelty Reshapes Neural Pathways Research in neuroscience shows that new environments stimulate neuroplasticity — the brain’s ability to form new connections. When you navigate unfamiliar …
Important skill: letting people be disappointed without rushing to rescue or explain. You can be kind — without over-functioning. You can care — without contorting yourself. You can choose your own capacity — and still be a good person. Discomfort …
Underrated life skill: pausing long enough to ask, “Is this actually worth my energy?” Not every comment needs a response. Not every trigger needs a reaction. Not every invitation deserves a yes. Sometimes the most regulated, self-respecting choice is to …
As a psychotherapist, I broke down the Taylor Swift–Blake Lively texts for body+soul.com.au, revealing what they got right (vulnerable check-ins!), what could’ve been better (earlier reciprocity), and lessons for us all. Conflict avoidant? Their bold honesty shows that naming the …